Such as?
At the time and still is in India, it was customary that he did get married, he really didn't want to. His wife was his sister and on the night of the marriage instead of consumating the relationship, he choose to tell his wife about Gnana Deham and how it works.
He only had 2 friends he visited. He became dissillusioned by people worshiping him and not God.

thats one of the things I know he wanted to stop, and open that room they have kept locked for over a century.

Questionable for someone who preached being with the people and not retreating to the woods, maybe.
For me his marriage was a bit odd but it was the 1800s.